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The structure X也X不⋯⋯,Y也Y不⋯⋯ is a Chinese grammatical pattern used to express a situation where both actions or states (X and Y) are impossible or unachievable. It emphasizes the speaker's feelings of helplessness or frustration regarding the inability to perform two different actions or to change two different states.
In this structure:
This structure is often used in contexts where the speaker feels stuck or unable to resolve a situation. It can convey emotions such as worry, frustration, or resignation.
Here, both eating and sleeping are impossible due to worry.
父母与孩子的关系就是这样,赶也赶不走,留也留不住。
In summary, the X也X不⋯⋯,Y也Y不⋯⋯ structure effectively conveys a sense of dual inability, highlighting the emotional weight of the situation described.